Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Review: Life, In Spite of Me

Author: Kristen Jane Anderson

Genre: Memoir (2010)

About: At age 17, depressed and hopeless after the death of three friends and her grandmother, Kristen lay down on railroad tracks near her home and an oncoming train severed her legs.

Descriptive Words: "She wanted to die. God had other plans." "Extraordinary hope after a fatal choice."

Thoughts: I can't imagine feeling desperate enough to lie down on railroad tracks and wait to be run over by a train. So many people, though, deal with depression, and it takes over their ability to think rationally.

I enjoyed Life, In Spite of Me. It's religious based, and the author tells of her strong belief that God saved her for a purpose. Someone familiar with trains told Kristen that she should have been sucked up into the train and that it was a miracle she survived. After healing from her injuries, Kristen attended Moody Bible Institute and now gives talks to young people about depression and suicide.

Is it possible for a book to be too positive to fit the tragedy? I felt like she didn't reveal her true emotions. I mean the girl lost both of her legs, and she wrote about it like, "Oh, it was a little tough, especially when I went somewhere and wondered how I was going to get up a flight of stairs" or "when I woke up in the hospital it was hard to look down and see that my legs were gone" (I'm paraphrasing there). A little too jovial for what she had to have gone through, but otherwise an inspiring story and a quick read.

I'm giving this 3.5 stars - which is between "it was okay" and "I enjoyed it."

Source: Staci from Life in the Thumb was kind enough to send this to me.

Why I Chose: I saw it on a few other blogs and it looked interesting. And it's a memoir, so of course I wanted to read it :)

Recommend? Yes, to my mom and sister and anyone who likes tragic but inspiring memoirs.

Rating: 3.5/5

Other Reviews:

Five Minutes for Books
Book Journey
Life in the Thumb
A Peek at My Bookshelf

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I can't imagine either waiting for a train to hit me. But there are so many people who do just that. Movies have popularized that mode of suicide as well. For such a drastic tragedy, even I am surprised that this book is as positive as you say. Good review!
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Your review was spot on. It's nice to know that our feelings in regards to this one were very similar.
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I would agree that she seems to gloss over the hardships associated with losing both your legs.
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Maybe it really didn't affect her much, but it hardly seems likely.

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I agree, she glosses over the tough stuff and it is all light and pretty colors way to quickly for me. I really wanted to read about a struggle to regain or capture her faith. Those are the stories that I want to read, where you life goes to pot and faith pulls you through.

I am very shaky on the whole god issue, so I am always searching for a book/story/memoir that will hit me like a mac truck. I see so many people comforted by their faith and I want me a piece of that, but I just don't get it.
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Sounds like you need to literally get run over by a mac truck! lol Sorry, that wasn't funny. But sometimes that really does happen to people...where something so tragic has to happen to them for them to finally "get it." I know what you mean though. She didn't struggle enough in this book for me either (that sounds awful, doesn't it?)

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